Your future is like building a house, my dear. It can be a castle, a small mini house, or a motorhome. The choice is yours according to your dreams. The foundation is the most important part of building your future.
Make a decision that will last a lifetime. Success is built brick by brick and step by step. Make sure to have the four cornerstones in place. The Desire to make your dreams come true. Determination to be persistent. Dedication, to learn more and the Discipline, to keep going. Search and research to make the best-informed decision. Make sure to build on a solid foundation, with the best material.
The whole wide world is waiting with lots of opportunities. You have a new adventure on hand, most importantly, building the foundation for your future. Success and, best of all, happiness is depending on your choices, choose wisely and go and get it, my dear.
Background on the Past
Growing up, you are part of a family, most of all, living according to your parent’s point of view. In the process, giving you the basic upbringing, you were exposed to a certain behaviour.
Coming of age, in contrast, you have to parent yourself now.
Select and find your own pattern, because, you have become a different person, most of all, having your own opinion.
No one taught you how to do it, therefore, the easiest way is to follow what you have seen at home, but, it is not who you are.
The biggest influence in your life is the cultural and family habits. Some of these habits form part of a control system for generations, which keeps you from being who you want to be.
You get taught not to think for yourself by the system. Being too strict, with the do-as-I-say attitude, was the norm. In the past it might have worked, but most definitely not with the Millennium kids. Knowledge is the key, and above all, your own strong opinions.
Families tend to have family traditions, some are good and some are not so good. All I know is, when it is, as a result, restricting your thoughts and mind, it is not good.
It is also part of a system from schools and churches, for instance, to manipulate people in a subtle way to fit into a social pattern. Walking the streets like obedient faceless ghosts, subsequently, too afraid to do or say something out of the ordinary.
For this reason, so many people are unhappy as adults. To build the foundation of your future is, first of all, to find your own way, it is very important.
Foundation to your Future with Guidance with Granny
Let’s sweep your mind a clean slate my dear, in fact, just keep the good manners, and most of all, the integrity you have learned at home.
Break loose, but, stay the loving family member, by becoming your own person, without judgement. Every generation has to change and adapt for survival, therefore, your parents went through the same process with their parents.
Walk away from the flock of sheep, and best of all, become unique.
Start building your basis on knowledge, my darling, best of all, find what makes you happy and where you want to go. Be specific and name your destination, furthermore, what are the dreams and how you want to achieve it.
Foundation to your Future
BEGIN AT THE GOAL POST
Where do you see yourself in forty years time, above all, when and where to retire. I know I know … you are not thinking of that at this stage of your life, but, you should.
Did you know, the main purpose of you getting a job, therefore working all your life, is to secure a good retirement plan?
No one realises or even think of it in that way.
How would you hope to spend your life at my age? Living a financially, carefree happy life, for instance, having enough money to live your dream comfortably. In contrast, you probably will be living in someone’s backyard waiting for handouts?
Now is the time to think and evidently, start planning.
I DARE YOU TO DREAM BIG
If you can think it, most certainly, you can do it!
Great granddad Willie always said, “Every problem can be solved, no matter how difficult the obstacle, there is always a way out.”
Analyse the problem, first of all, break it up into sections and start solving it step by step.
Think out the box or around it.
Guidance with Granny Foundation to your Future
Let’s dream big:
Your Possible Destinations.
• You will be on the Mediterranean on your yacht with friends.
• Travelling in luxury around the world, furthermore, visit all the countries you want.
• To live in the mansion of your dreams, in addition, driving a supercar.
Maybe you want it all, therefore, your planning should be accordingly. Give it your all and plan diligently.
Anything and everything in life are possible, but, there are certain conditions to achieve it.
Guidance with Granny Foundation to your Future
Setting goals and achieving dreams.
• Do some thorough Planning
• The four D‘s are essential
Is desire big enough to get what you want, first of all, find the WHY?
Have the Desire, Discipline and Determination to achieve it, most importantly, Dedication holds the key.
Having the correct mindset, as well as, perseverance are absolute important attributes.
Guidance with Granny
• To get recognition in life, first of all, you have to become an authority in your field of knowledge, darling Thinette. Search research and gain the ability to be the expert, therefore, read it and make it your own to become an authority with the best skill.
• Never be forward with your knowledge.
• Listen and Observe.
• Always be the last to speak.
Next page in your journal.
• Find your ultimate goals in life and, best of all, write them down.
• How do I make the best choices, and in the process, be happy and successful? Search for a good Mentor to assist you.
DO YOUR PLANNING
Building the foundation to your future, my dear is, first of all, have a plan with goals. Setting goals, most importantly, goals with deadlines. It is the only way to achieve success.
The sooner you start, the sooner you will see and earn the fruit of your hard-earned labour, and in the process, making retirement a dream come true.