Nothing feels as good and makes you glow with happiness than having a man loving you from his heart. Giving you his devotion, undivided attention, makes you feel special and the only woman that matters, he wants to be with you, do things with you and for you. Your happiness and the happiness of this special relationship has captured his heart. It really exists my dear, if you don’t feel it you have not met him yet!
How to make a man fall in love with you, keep him interested and devoted to you has all to do with his primal needs. What is the secret to keep a man happy you may ask? Instinctively we want to shower him with your attention love and care but that could mean the end of a good relationship.
Capture his Mind, Caress his Ego and take Care of his Soul.
A man set goals and is always on a mission. He wants to be the victor of every goal he sets in his life. Everything is a challenge and he must be the champion whether it is a race or a business deal and most of all, he wants to be the conqueror of the most valuable prize of his heart… You! How do you create this contest to become the ultimate winner of his heart?
Ways to Capture His Mind.
Secrets to a Man’s Love.
Men needs a challenge to ‘win’. Keep him winning your attention repeatedly. Never become comfortable and too easily accessible to him. Let him ‘deserve’ a date with you, occasionally let him earn it, even when you are married. It is good to keep evenings specific for dates, at least once a week. You don’t have to go out, have a private date at home, just the two of you, lock the doors and switch off the phones. Organize with a friend to take care of the kids overnight and next time you return the favour.
Make him conscious how important you are, having you by his side will enhance the quality of his life tremendously. Every man wants a great woman by his side. A way to create value is staying away for a while with good reason, go out with lady friends, go and visit your parents, go on a course at work, etc. It will leave an emptiness making him aware how much he misses you, imagining a life without you will be detrimental. He will realize your value and be more dedicated.
A man wants a woman who has a calming effect and brings happy feelings in his life. Men are programmed to move towards things and people who creates the feel GOOD and happy feelings, and will move away the moment something feels BAD and heavy.
Makes him feel he is the most important and best person in your life. Shower him with compliments and mean it, especially his physic, he wants reasurance everyday.
A man wants to be in a relationship which makes him feel good. Never turn a relationship into your emotional dumping ground, blaming or accusing him. The best attitude is to be happy and fun to be with and not give him the feeling you are using your relationship as a place to air all negativity or problems you have. If that is your attitude, change it if you care about a successful relationship.
Find a specific place and time to discuss bad influences threatening the relationship. Do in a calm manner and deal with it in a unified way. Ask each other’s advice, listen and compromise. You can say anything and everything you want to him and have his deep appreciation for you, as long he feels you are on his side. Never accuse, blame or make him feel like you are opposing him, that is conflict. In a healthy relationship a man wants to share his emotions with someone he can trust, just like you, whether it is good news or bad.
Never try to change the character of your partner. To have a complete relationship you must accept and enjoy each other as unique individuals. Don’t try to conform your partner to your needs. Relax, love and enjoy who he /she is, stop having concerns and worries, let go and let be! Things you find important might be destroying your relationship causing your man to pull away.
Why did he not text me back or call me? Remember your man is a Hunter! Single-track minded with good reason and his focus is on his goal of the moment. It all goes back to ‘winning‘. Anything outside that target of the moment is a distraction from his mission. Texting or calling is the last thing on his mind and has nothing to do with you or what you did.
A man wants to feel acts of love from you too. Unconsciously they expect your love back it the same way they show love you. It is the only way they will recognize it.
How do you show love that he will recognize?
Make it your priority to understand the way your man loves.
Love and romance have been confused with wants and needs as much as the need for oxygen. All his acts of love can be romantic if you know his love-language.You might have an image of what love means to you, on the other hand your man has an image what love means to him and these two images can be worlds apart, with unnecessary misunderstandings as a result.
Many women have a man that loves them deeply and shows it to her in his way. She never appreciates it because she does not know the love language of her man.
Simply look at the way he is showering you with his love. What is his surprises to you like. Pay attention to special personal little acts of love, is it words of love and praise, hugs and kisses leading to the bedroom, small gifts he comes home with or things he does for you to make you feel special, maybe cook you your special meal. You will immediately recognize his acts of love and that is the way to love him back. Keep it balanced and don’t go overboard, giving too much and make him bored with you.
The X-Factor in a Relationship.
Before you enter a serious relationship make sure you both know who you are, be happy with the person you are. Inspire each other to keep growing within, together and separate my dear.
The magic ingredient for all successful happy relationships is Self-Development on all fronts. You must be prepared and willing to develop yourselves to be independent financially, psychologically, spiritually, romantically, sexually and physically, make it your mission to achieve it. Showing you are an individual earning the right to live a happy life all by yourself. You don’t depend on other people or situations to make you happy, and this is how to make a man fall in love with you for ever and ever.