Being happy and content is an accepted norm in life. Everybody seeks happiness. Making good choices in life with discussions, deliberation and being conclusive. It is some of the important steps towards obtaining a happy life whether it is at work or at home.
Choosing a career is the second most importanc choice you will make. Find what really interest you and what you are passionate about in life and build a career around it.
When you feel you are not getting anywhere in the current situation because of a bad choice, it is not the end of the world my dear. Be never rigid or land in a rut. Make an informed decision and move on to greener pastures, don’t waste time.
Approach everything with an open mind and question anything. Making good life decisions is imperative for well-being and happiness. It is important to keep this in mind when making good life decisions.
Become a Free Thinker.
A Free Thinker is a person who rejects accepted opinions made by society just because. An opinion should be based on reason and logic, rather than traditional authoritarian dogma. Find opinions based on your ability of independent thought and belief in the truth.
Know who you are and stay true to yourself, be selfish and put yourself first, regret nothing and live in the now and in the future. Yesterday is gone under the bridge and nothing can change it. Forget about it, only take the lesson learnt from it. You have a choice to change it in future.
Make core values count. Having respect for everything and everyone is of vital importance. Be always honest, be a positive team player, trustworthy and live a life of stress free openness.
Know what you want, be realistic and happy about it, set the bar high enough to reach and move slowly upward.
Be selfish and put yourself first, other people can wait their turn. Take care of yourself. No one else will, you might soon become everybody’s doormat if you don’t.
Make own decisions long term and short term, figure out what you need in live, freedom of speech to express yourself, travel, a family, financial freedom, or something else? Make a list of priorities if it will help you, and make a decision. Plan your goals strategically and follow up on them
How will you handle Obstacles. An obstacle is an obstruction and hindrance hampering success. Identify obstacles and unarmed them.
How to Overcome your Obstacles
Reclaim your power. Stop feeling the victim, you can conquer this. Get up, stand tall with confidence and look the obstacle in the eye.
Distance yourself from the problem, get up and walk out, get a cup of coffee and try to see reality. See it in context and have a balanced perspective.
Break it in smaller goals. If the problem seems overwhelming, start with the smallest step to go slowly forward and plan your strategy based on your success.
Have patience stay commited and focused to solve the problem, nothing happens with the snap of a finger my love. Have the mindset to see this through and as a challenge to grow.
Never sidestep an obstacle, take a moment and find a way to outdistance this problem because you can. Mentally you will grow and gain maturity in experience.
There are different forms of obstacles. Not only can it be the physical hindrance in the form of a difficult co-worker, a parking ticket or a flat tyre. Sometimes you can be your own worst nightmare.
Being Your Own Worst Obstacle
An obstacles can be anyone of these
Not having optimism. Nothing is as bad as a negative attitude. It is like a car in reverse gear, you go nowhere soon.
Discipline. Do I have to say anymore, only a positive attitude towards achievement and the dedication to make it happen can bring the change.
No Foresight. See the bigger picture and the goal at the end. Plan with insight. People with emotional intelligence are way ahead. Only a conservative rigid mindset have no vision of the future. They live in a very small world.
When living a day to day live, there will be no progress. Find what interests you, feel enthusiastic about life and do planning. It will be contagious and you will achieve your goals much sooner than you think.
No Commitment. One can plan and start a fantastic project but with no commitment it is futile. Be enthusiastic about your passion and commitment comes easy.
Resilience. It is the ability to recover quickly after a setback. Be flexible and open to possibilities to solve a problem. Be never to set in your ways or lose track with reality.
Curiosity kills a cat as they say. It is best to confine yourself to your own business. The rest out there is just a distraction from your goal.
Never make comparisons or assume. Each person or situation is unique, not two are the same. Never make the mistake to assume, you will always land with the wrong conclusion.
Find new solutions. We live in an era where changes occur daily, nothing stays the same. The best strategy is to seek knowledge, adapt and go with the evolution of change.
Most of these are bad habits and will be easy to rectify. I know you will know how to deal with it.
Everybody is prone to obstacles in life, some people choose to be the victim, some choose to be a survivor and then you get the go-getter who choose to conquer overcome an win.
Finding an Adviser and Mentor
Find a mentor who personify your ideal. Ask questions and listen to their advice. Do what they advise. They have already walked the road and know the pitfalls. Learn from them, remember experience holds the key.
Choose your friends with care. They are the extension of your life. Friends are more important than you think, choosing them wisely is one of the cornerstones of your social life.
Friendship is based on mutual trust and respect. You must be able to depend on one another for support, advice and honesty in a time of importance.
Good true best friends makes you feel secure and boost your confidence. There should be nothing in their behavior making you question their honesty and sincerity .
Choose friends with a similar background as you, it makes understanding each other a lot easier.
Stay away from friends talking down to you and making you feel unworthy.
This falls under toxic relationships, and they are not your friends.
Never try to be everybody’s friend.
Find one or two trustworthy couples with the same positive values and enjoy good times together.