How strong is strong enough not to crack?
Growing up you are part of a family living according to your parent’s planning and point of view. Coming of age you have to parent yourself, plan and find your own pattern because you are a different person who has form your own opinion.
No one teaches you how to do it, so the easiest way is to follow what you have seen at home but it could not be who you are. This might be the reason why so many people are unhappy as adults. Building the foundation of your future is so important.
Let’s sweep your mind a clean slate my dear and then get going again to start building the foundation to your future.
The biggest influence in your life are the cultural and family habits. Some of these habits form part of a control system for generations, which keeps you from being who you want to be.
It is part of a system from schools and churches, that is meant to manipulate people in a subtle way to fit into a social pattern, walking the streets like obedient faceless ghosts, too afraid to do or say something out of the ordinary.
You get taught not to think for yourself. Families tend to have family traditions, some are good and some are not so good. All I know is when it is restricting your thoughts and mind it is not good.
Break loose and become your own person. Make your own choices, have a mind of your own and live the life you want to and start building the foundation to your future, with warmth and caring.
Walk away from the flock of sheep and become unique.
To be able to start building your foundation my darling, you have to find what makes you happy and where you want to go in life. Name your destination. What are the dreams you want to achieve.
LET US BEGIN AT THE GOAL POST.
Where do you see yourself in forty years time when you retire. I know I know …. you are not thinking of that at this stage of your life, but you should … that is the whole purpose of you getting a job and start working.
How would you hope to spend your life at my age? Living a financially, carefree happy life. Having enough money to live your dream comfortably, or probably living in someone’s back yard waiting for handouts?
Now is the time to think and start planning.
I DARE YOU TO DREAM BIG.
If you can think it, you can do it!
Great granddad Willie always said “Every problem has a plan to solve it, no matter how difficult the obstacle is.”
Analyse the problem, break it up into sections and start solving it step by step.
Think out the box and around it.
Let’s dream big:
• You might want to be on the Mediterranean on your yacht with friends.
• Travelling in luxury to all the countries you wish.
•Live in the mansion of your dreams driving a super car.
Maybe you want it all … but it is better to be realistic and start small with a Plan.
Anything and everything in life is possible, but there are certain conditions to achieve it.
• Do some thorough Planning
• the four D‘s are essential
Desire big enough to get what you want
Discipline and Determination to achieve it
Dedication holds the key.
• To get recognition in life you have to become an authority in your field darling Thinette. Search research and gain all the knowledge you can, read it and make it your own to be come an authority with the best skill.
• Never be forward with your knowledge.
• Listen and Observe.
• Always be the last to speak .
Next page in your journal.
• Find your ultimate goals in life and write them down.
• How do I make the best choices to be happy and successful. Find a good Mentor to lead you.
DO YOUR PLANNING
Building the foundation to your future my dear, is having a plan with goals first. Setting goals with deadlines is the only way to achieve success.
The sooner you start the sooner you will see the fruit of your hard earned labour, making retirement a dream come true.