Who Are You Thinette?
Am I really who I think I am?
Would I like to be my own best friend?
Today in Guidance with Granny it is all about finding who you really are, my dear, unravelling the real person hiding deep inside.
~ Do I like the person in the mirror?
~ What makes me who I am, what defines me, and most of all, what are my habits and what dictates the values I live by?
~ What are your values, truths and beliefs, and what is important to you?
~ Be a spectator into your life, see yourself from a distance.
~ Can I evaluate all of importance in your life and formulate your own take on it. Express your own opinions and feelings.
Remember you become like the five closest people who surround you every day. You pick up their habits and mindset … look around you, is that who you want to be?
Very important to surround you with the kind of people you want to be. You have to figure out what you want from life and how you want to spend your time.
Who you are and what your habits are will inevitably have a great influence on your mission and goals in your life. The foundation is already laid at home, school and college. Now is the time to add the finishing touches, likewise, reinvent who you want to be, along, with your own twist on it.
In the practical world, there are certain rules and regulations to keep good order. In short, it will have influences and impacts on the development of the new advanced You, but do not let society dictate who you want to be.
Guidance with Granny helping you find Who Are You?
FINDING and DEFINING
• Define your personality type.
• Changing habits.
• Where do weaknesses come from?
• How to conquer it all.
• Valuable Characteristics.
No, it is not your name, address, phone or family ties, these are, as a matter of fact, your official information for statistics. We are going to delve deeper than skin deep to find the real Thinette and, in the process, what makes her happy.
Get to your emotions and, most certainly, what is it You want, no matter. There is only one chance we all have, furthermore one life, giving it the best, creating your happiness.
Remember, in Your world, You are the most important person. Protecting your persona, you most importantly, have to establish a strong Self. Always find your position first, and after that, find a solution from that advantage point. Start by loving yourself, even more, all of yourself.
In every situation, find your position, more so, it should be top of the list. Get answers from that advantage point, first of all, how you see it.
~ Start with “I am Thinette, and then your position,
~ I am Thinette and are currently a PA at a company, and that position can change any day.
~ I am Thinette at the moment, teaching kids, at a school but I might apply for a post elsewhere.
~ I am Thinette and are at the moment managing L&M Industries, but might go and work on river cruises in Europe next.
~ I am Thinette and are married to Jack while he still loves me.
Do you get it, love? You stay the person you are, it is just the position that changes. Therefore you have to establish who you, Thinette is!
Develop a strong self that will never change. You stay who you are no matter what happens in the outside world. You will never lose your identity. The core never changes only the trimmings.
Filling a position at work or at home does not define who you are. It is never about the title nor position. Every position in life is temporary and nothing is certain, only You are forever.
To protect yourself you have to, first of all, know your identity and be true to it at all times.
Who are You really?
FIND YOUR PERSONALITY TYPE
Let’s determined what personality type you are:
• Are you a positive, outgoing, bubbly, person seeing the glass as half full, for that reason, always happy and see the bright side of life. Fun to be with?
• In contrast, never satisfied, always negative, moaning, grumpy, nagging and demanding?
• Afraid, shy, anti-social, therefore, lonely with very little confidence?
• Are you a person with integrity, sincere, loyal, dependable, honest and trustworthy?
• Not always telling the truth, cheating, in addition, depending on others to make you happy and do things for you, always knowing better?
• Sporty, artistic or musical, in other words, do you have a hobby?
• Are you a good listener, and at the same time, can you hold a good conversation, knowing what goes on in the world and be interesting?
• Self-centred, boring, shallow-minded, and as a result, housing a small mind and a small world?
• Do you have good friends, most importantly, what are they like and what do they say about you?
Mark all the ones you recognize in yourself, and at the same time, mark the ones you want to change.
Decide who you want, the new Thinette to be, in short start changing old bad habits and have better self-worth.
CHANGING BAD HABITS with Guidance with Granny
It is said that you, subsequently, can change habits in twenty-one days with repetitive action.
Find the habit that will be the easiest to change, for instance, replace it with your new behaviour.
Practice the new behaviour every time, certainly, never thinking to go back to the old bad habit.
Repeat until you feel comfortable it has become part of your new lifestyle, after that, move to the next.
These new chosen characteristics must become your lifestyle now, to a happy and confident Thinette.
Find Who You Are
WEAKNESSES AND CHALLENGES
To be honest with yourself is one thing, but at the same time, it is never easy to admit. The core of most weaknesses is laziness, and in addition, too used to your comfort zone. love.
• There might be a few weaknesses, hiding in the dark corners, my dear. How about miss Procrastination, miss Lazy, miss Party Animal, miss TV Monster, or Internet games champion, etc.
To really become successful you, admittedly, face all the gremlins and get rid of those in the way of your success, one by one. Find your own way to do it, but the best way is to cut them by their knees, to fell off the radar immediately. Teach yourself to overproduce on all your tasks, my love.
Be very strict with yourself.
There might be other reasons too
• There might be a more serious issue. It may be something an adult or a friend, probably said years ago, and you still drag it with you.
See it for what it is, as a matter of fact, the other person might have been insecure and just said it to hurt or draw you down. It can be a failure, you subsequently can’t accept.
HOW TO CONQUER IT ALL
Now is the time to get rid of them all, first of all, you won’t need the memory any more. Sit back and finally, see it in perspective.
Analyse, more so see it for what it was. Say to yourself, it is part of the past, therefore put it in a box and throw it in the dustbin.
You are much stronger now and has grown past it. Get rid of it, most importantly it doesn’t matter anymore.
Make the decision to turn that into a motivating factor, move on to become the new you.
You never have to respond to challenges or situations immediately. Rather say I will come back to you and observe to evaluate. See each challenge as an opportunity to grow. Each situation can be a gift, do not let it slip by.
Forget about any weaknesses, erase it from your memory and turn it into a positive. Let it motivate and inspire you, making you a stronger person.
Be your best self!
Guidance with Granny asks Who You Are
KEY TO HAPPINESS
Your emotions and feelings are determined by your subconscious mind which in return is the keeper of your happiness.
Remember your behaviour and your thoughts feed your unconscious mind and that mirrors your mood and your feelings.
By having an open-heart, being honest, sincere, truthful and caring you feed your unconscious mind and spirit what it needs. Most of all you are projecting the emotional healthiness which makes you a happy person.
Who are You?
Never become mediocre and disappear in the flock walking the streets.
Stay strong and your authentic self.
Make your own choices and own them.
The most valuable sought after characteristics you want to have are honesty, trustworthiness, being dependable, positive and a good listener.
Follow these principles and you will be a confident person with integrity which everybody can depend on.
No money in the world can buy that my dear.
Take the time now to develop the person you want to be. Find your personality type and make some habit changes to become the new warm happy caring person you want to be.
Happiness will follow you wherever you go, just get up and get started.
Your loving Gran Stella.